I can’t believe we’ve entered November and have less than 60 days left in 2025! Now is the time to reflect and prepare for the new year. November is when I focus on gratitude, which grounds and stabilizes me, allowing me to stay present as I plan for the future. Typically, November and December can become chaotic if we let them. We’re running through grocery stores shopping for Thanksgiving dinner, helping the kids prepare for end-of-year exams, searching for Christmas presents while they’re still in school, sneaking around to hide gifts, figuring out what to get your spouse, and if you’re the one hosting Thanksgiving at your house… forget about it—stress is literally chasing you down! Ironically, this season is meant for relaxation, peace, joy, and family nostalgia, yet it can quickly turn stressful and draining. If you find your holidays have been hijacked by stress and autopilot, I encourage you to be intentional in these final weeks of 2025. The Key is to ground yourself in gratitude so you can enjoy the holidays and start the New Year with clarity.
To achieve grounding and stability, it’s important to practice deep gratitude—being thankful acts as a powerful medicine. When you feel down or stressed and nothing seems to be going right, your emotions may align with your situation, influencing both your words and your heart. This can lead you down a path of ungratefulness, shown through complaining or emotional outbursts, which can escalate to depression, anger, or irritability, ultimately affecting your health if not addressed.
Gratitude has the power to recalibrate the mind and override your emotions. When your mind aligns with your expressions of gratitude, it prompts your emotions to follow suit, connecting you to moments of reflection. Practicing gratitude involves remembering the good things that have happened in your life, or that are happening now. Your mind and memory play a significant role in accessing gratitude. Gratitude can literally erase stress if you let it—just take time to remember and reflect on the good, pleasant, and sometimes funny things your kids, spouse, or loved ones have said or done.
I encourage you to try this simple shift this November: Take some time in the morning before everyone wakes up, and again at night after the kids go to bed, to either journal or meditate on the things you are grateful for in your life. These can be from the past, present, or even things you’re looking forward to. Focus on how you feel and make this a consistent habit, especially during the holiday season and into the New Year. You’ll find yourself in a better mood, with clearer emotions, a fuller heart, and a greater presence in your life. Instead of trying to escape or wait for the day to end, you will actually enjoy life’s simple moments with less stress. Life will feel less like a duty or a role to play, and more like something you are genuinely connected to and want to engage in.
When you are grounded in gratitude, life’s winds and waves cannot blow you away, because you are rooted in gratefulness!
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